Posts Tagged ‘purpose’

Dream a BIG Dream

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

Are you holding on to a dream that you’ve had for years? Are you reaching for that dream or letting it be idle in your mind? It’s easy to get discouraged and let a dream fade, but that’s not what dreams are for. I believe we are called to pursue our dreams as part of our life’s work – an answer to the soul’s calling. Some dreams may seem out of reach, but often we can get closer than we ever thought with just a little effort, creative thinking and support.

I’m dreaming a big dream and need your help!!

Oprah is producing a new reality show on her debut network, OWN. It’s a show for TV hosts that will air Jan 2011. I’ve entered the competition and need a severe amount of votes! If you have 3-5 minutes of time, please view and vote for my audition on Oprah by clicking here? You can vote as often as you like, or make comments! The votes don’t tally immediately, but they DO count.

What are you dreaming? Sometimes going for our dreams means asking people for help. It can feel difficult or embarrassing to do this, but I don’t believe we are meant to do this life alone…we need people’s support. Share your dream today with a loved one or a new friend. You never know how you will get there, or if it will look as you imagined, but all you can do is try. Believe me, the journey during the ‘try’ is worth more than a million moments of ‘not trying.’ This way, there is no failure – only success!!

I’ve been in pursuit of my dream since I was a small, small child and feel grateful for the achieved milestones. Now I’m reaching higher for ‘My OWN Show’ and I sincerely appreciate your help!! It takes a village to raise a child, and, launch a big dream…

Stuck in Neutral?

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

Sometimes we go through periods in our lives that feel idle. Idle minds. Neutral energy that’s stagnant, frustrating, lethargic or just plain ‘ole confusing. Ever been there?

Like a car, sitting in neutral is fine for a brief time, but we aren’t designed to just live our lives there. Neutral is a place to sit while we are pondering, waiting or taking a break, but not to dwell. Long periods without inspiration, decision, movement and gusto drain our batteries. Often, people get stuck in this place and need to rev up their engines to jump back into the game of life.

You know that saying “an idle mind is the devil’s workshop” (yes, I’m from the south but it is a good analogy). To sit for too long on any decision, dream or risk is not a good thing. The stagnation settles into our spirit and creates all kinds of compulsions, obsessions, mental hiccups and even fears. To get out of neutral, you’ve got to switch gears. Get into your life again, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Usually that uneasy feeling is just “stickiness” from stuck energy. You know how it feels when you haven’t flown in an airplane in years? The next time you do it, those uncomfortable feelings come back, like the very first time you flew. If you fly everyday, your system is lubed and that sticky energy is nowhere to be found. It takes movement to loosen stuck energy. Action and repetition.It takes boldness and honestly, just doing it. Don’t try to gently slide back into your life – get revved up. Kick it into gear fast and go. Do the exact opposite of what your idle brain is telling you to do. Depending on how long you’ve been in neutral, your brain is a mosh-pit of mental confusion and negative chatter, so don’t listen to it beyond reason.

One definition of neutral says: “Having no inherent or net charge, especially electric charge.” Now, how in the world are you going to accomplish your God-given dreams, your purpose, without some kind of charge? Use your energy. Put the pedal to the medal and go for it. You will only get out of neutral with action. Make that call. Clean out your closets. Start that company. Ask him over for dinner. Get a new hairstyle (it works). Take your first run in 15 years. Sign up for the dance class. Say YES to opportunities. With one full motion, put your hand on the gear shift, put your foot to the pedal and just do it.